Lessons from Dr. Seuss this Christmas

whovilleIs Christmas solely about the decorations and the term “Merry Christmas”? Haven’t those insisting there be a “War on Christmas” learned anything from Dr. Seuss? Whether it is the Grinch or Scrooge, you shouldn’t allow those who wish to hurt you do so. Why give them the power over what makes yours a merry Christmas or not?

In How the Grinch Stole Christmas, the Whos of Whoville didn’t need the Christmas tree, stockings, presents, food or decorations to celebrate Christmas. In their song “Welcome Christmas,” they sing “Christmas Day will always be. Just as long as we have we.” In the midst of having their entire holiday celebration stolen from them, they still woke up and celebrated with warmth in their hearts. What the Grinch hoped to rob from them, he couldn’t. Getting angry over the secularization of the holidays is allowing others to get inside your head. By giving them the fight they are looking for, you’re giving them what they want for Christmas.

After all, it was seeing the warmth and happiness of the Whos that melted the Grinch’s ice-cold heart in the end. That’s the lesson the Grinch learned. It’s also the lesson we should be teaching our kids, the Grinches and Scrooges in our lives. They can tear down our Christmas trees and replace “Merry Christmas” with “Happy Holidays” but they can’t take away the warmth the season brings to those who celebrate it. Make them see they are missing something  just like the Whos did for the Grinch.

Remember Christmas isn’t about the things or even red holiday cups – it’s about the spirit of Christmas you have in your heart and no one can take that away from you unless you allow them to.

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Cures for Unhappiness on WebMD?

happiness-next-exitYes, believe it or not, the site where you check out what your symptoms mean, has articles on treatments for the “medical condition” known as unhappiness.

For you skeptics out there, check out this link (I know seeing is believing).

Anne Stuart wrote an article with cooperation from Dr. Brunilda Nazario on happiness for WebMD.com titled “Why You’re Not Happy.”

Here’s the simple-6 part treatment for the cure:

  1. Simplify (pare down)
  2. Slow Down (pause)
  3. Let Go! (mindful meditation)
  4. Feel the Real (feel emotions, express feelings)
  5. Stay Hopeful
  6. Connect with Others

Sounds simple enough but we know real life can be messy, hard to navigate and not easy to overcome. Most of our resistance to finding a cure to our ailment is because we often feel like our issues are more complicated than can be cured with simple answers.

That’s our problem. In the modern, technology-driven world, we complicate things. When in reality, life is simple: breathe, eat, sleep, excrete. Everything else is gravy or heartache or inessential however you want to describe it.

Anne Morrow Lindbergh in her tome about life (Gift from the Seawrote much about the six principles of happiness that Ms. Stuart writes as her “medical” cure for unhappiness.  Interesting enough, these principles also unfold in my book, Life in Harmony.

The main characters, Kate and Michael, are facing complicated modern problems: infertility, in vitro fertilization, LIH Cover 2015bankruptcy, cancer and modern jobs (data collection and advertising). Life for them is involved and overwhelming as the book opens. They are at a crossroads in their lives. And what does it take for them to find their way back to their happiness?

The “prescribed” dose of simplicity, slowing down, letting go, real feelings, hope and connecting with others helps guide Kate and Michael to hopeful resolutions. Pairing and slowing down are the start to curing what ails them. The rest unfolds as the book goes along. Life is a journey and finding the cure for a happy life is simple if you let it be. 

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Humble Yourself in the Splendor of it all!

In the E.B. White book Charlotte’s Web, Charlotte spelled out the word “Humble” in her last web about Wilbur the pig. While Wilbur was becoming semi-famous, Charlotte reminded him and his onlookers that regardless of his state in life he was still a humble pig.humble-charlotte-s-web

Being humble also means “realizing your place in the grand scheme of things (life) and being humbled by the greatness of it all.” Sometimes our problems consume us so deeply that we miss the fact that our individual problems aren’t as consuming as we allow them to be. There are greater forces at work and our contributions here aren’t as significant as we may think.

In the movie Grand Canyon (1991), tow-truck driver, Simon, tells lawyer, Mack, to get himself out to the Grand Canyon. Simon (played by Danny Glover) continues, “It’s pretty, all right, but that’s not the thing of it…When you sit on the edge of that thing, you just realize what a joke we people are. What big heads we got thinking that what we do is gonna matter all that much. Thinking our time here means diddly to those rocks. It’s a split second we been here, the whole lot of us. Yeah, those rocks are laughing at me, I could tell. Me and my worries, it’s real humorous to that Grand Canyon.”

grandcanyon3The movie wraps up with Simon and Mack’s families out at the Grand Canyon and, with James Newton Howard’s sweeping score, we witness the majesty of the creation of the Canyon in vivid color. It reminds us that no matter what we have going on in our lives, there is something greater at work here. Our problems don’t amount to a spec of sand in the larger picture. We are to be humbled by the greatest at work.

This idea is explored in my book, Life in HarmonyAs the book opens, Kate and Michael are at a stressful crossroads in their life as they take off for a weekend getaway. The journey of their drive from the congested Los Angeles to California’s pristine Central Coast is written as a metaphor of the cleansing we can witness when surrounded in a natural setting.

Later in the book, Kate is encouraged to go and spend some time at the beach in solitude. There is no question Kate has been through a lot with both a miscarriage and the death of her mother. Kate is needing clarity and her new friend in Harmony encourages her to seek that clarity at the beach.

“I can’t tell you all the hours I have sat and thought things over at the beach just taking in the inspiring landscape. Sunset at Santa Rosa CreekThe beach is a gift. A gift to be taken in over long periods of time. Time alone. Time to think. Time to appreciate…Go down to the beach. Go and experience it for yourself. Connect with that spirit inside yourself that is yearning to come out. There is power and peace in moving beyond our own reality to a power greater than ourselves. Go now! The beach is calling.”

We all need to  take some time to take in the splendor if for no other reason but to humble ourselves and our problems. Taking in the serenity of a natural environment like the ocean or Grand Canyon helps put our life in perspective. It should also connect us with a power that is greater than ourselves.

LIH Cover 2015If you haven’t subscribed to this blog, please do so (at the top right). My blog focuses on stories and ideas to inspire. If you are looking for positive reminders and inspirational stories, you can also follow me on Twitter and Facebook. Click this link for social media connections.

If you’re looking for a good book with an uplifting story, check out my novel, Life in Harmony. Click this link to buy the book!

Being In-Spirit…Being Inspired

Dr. Wayne Dyer said that inspiration comes when we move back in-spirit with a power greater than ourselves. When we let our EGO dictate our life, we Edge God Out and fall out of being in-spirit. Being in-spirit is a significant theme of my novel, Life in Harmony. The theme plays out in the central couple’s return to a more natural setting (God is represented in nature). The theme of being in-spirit is also represented as Kate opens up her acceptance of being one with a heavenly spirit.

When I first began developing the story, it was going to be nothing more than a ghost story but then inspiration took hold of the story and it went further down a path of spirituality than I had originally intended.

I had always been drawn to stories that included God’s use of the supernatural to make his point. The bible is full of God’s direct intervention in the lives of common people. It was an angel that visited both Mary and Joseph separately and told of the baby she was to bear. When you look at the story of Christ’s birth alone, it is filled will God’s divining hand in ensuring things happened as intended. From the use of angels to the wise men, God guided the course of Mary and Joseph’s life in the opening of the gospel story.

Boo RadleyTo Kill A Mockingbird, Shoeless Joe Jackson/Field of Dreams and the movie Grand Canyon are favorites of mine because they dance very close to a divine force watching over us, guiding us, toward a greater goal. Being in-spirit comes in many forms in these titles and it reminds us that God is at work and uses whatever means possible to ensure his “plot” is followed. Whether it’s a stranger on the street or homeless man in Grand Canyon, the angelic Boo Radley in Mockingbird or J.D. Salinger in Shoeless Joe Jackson (character was renamed in Field of Dreams), we are reminded that God works out the details of inspiration in whatever manner necessary.

In Life in Harmony, our main characters, Kate and Michael, are at a crossroads and inspiration gathers like a rolling stone in the beginning of the book. A hand rubbing a back inspires an agreement for a trip. The open road with seemingly endless possibilities leads to a turn off that changes the course of events (pay attention to how the roads in the book come to dead ends and how that plays a part in the journey).

Inspiration comes from our willingness to be joined with a greater power than ourselves. My inspiration to this philosophy came from Dr. Dyer and in my appreciation for use of supernatural elements in the books and movies I mentioned above. Life in Harmony shows what life out of inspiration (not being in-spirit) and in spirit is like.

The term supernatural these days takes on a non-spiritual element and is more aligned with scary elements related commonly to ghosts (another word with more negative connotations than it should have…will save my thoughts on that for later). Merriam-Webster’s dictionary defines supernatural as being unable to be explained by science or the laws of nature; relating to… a God.

Being inspired literally means being aroused or imbued with the spirit to do something, by supernatural or divine influence. Life in Harmony is a story inspired by and about being in-spirit with something greater than ourselves.LIH Cover 2015

If you haven’t picked up my novel, Life in Harmony, yet please buy it today (click here for more info).  If you have read it, let me know what you thought. I hope you find it inspiring. Dyer Book

An additional resource for inspiration is the Dr. Wayne Dyer book Inspiration: Your Ultimate Call. I was saddened by his death earlier this year as his books and lectures changed my focus in life. I will always be grateful for his inspiring me to get back to what my Spirit wanted from me – to write.


Buy the Book!

Today is the day! My novel, Life in Harmony, is finally available! You can order a copy by clicking one of these links:

For those of you not familiar with the book’s story, the book is one woman’s spiritual journey as she copes with loss in her life. She is at a point in her life where she has to cope with the death of her mother and a miscarriage at the same time. On top of that she is debating whether staying with her husband is the best choice for her. In short, she is lost.LIH Cover 2015

Too many people are often unsure about the direction of their life and can’t seem to find what matters. In our modern age, religion has less of a focus for too many. Too often parents decide that God and religion aren’t important. Some even go so far to say they will let their children decide on religion when they are old enough to do so. For most, religion has become a politicized and complicated subject. Often our churches don’t make it any easier on those non-practicing.

An individual relation with God is isn’t really  as complicated as religion makes it. In fact, it is what’s missing from too many lives. When you don’t believe in a Creator/God who has a masterful plan, you are left without hope. Without hope there is a void in your life that too often gets filled with vices that thinly veil that void but for only short time.

Life in Harmony tells Kate’s special story. Sometimes God uses supernatural intervention to bring his lost sheep back to the flock.  This book takes a very soft approach toward bringing people closer to God without hitting them over the head with it. It is my hope that the book’s non-threatening approach to God through spirituality will open some hearts toward having God in their life and how that connection brings a new awareness to what life is really all about.

When life seems to be handing you nothing but loss, take the most unexpected turn to “Life in Harmony.” 

I hope you will do me the honor of buying Life in Harmony today. I think you will find it a good story with a great message. Perhaps you could buy a copy for a friend who is missing out on having God in their life.

I plan on spending the next 10 weeks doing a Blog Blitz here covering themes and ideas presented in the book. Subscribe at the top right to stay informed as I share my insight from the book.

Stories that Inspire

My novel, Life in Harmony, (Available Tuesday 12/1/15) is a book that I hope inspires. With the creation of Pangloss Sea Books, I was inspired to focus this blog (along with Twitter and Facebook) on stories that inspire. In looking at the other stories I am working on, there is a consistent theme of hope, faith and redemption in them. I appreciate stories that have a very positive uplifting ending. I should preface that it doesn’t always have to have a completely happy ending but it should be a story that gives hope or an inspirational message.

In the movie, Silver Lining Playbook, Pat (Bradley Cooper) is upset by the ending to Hemingway’s “A Farewell to Arms.” He rationalizes that life is hard enough as it is. “Can’t you have a happy ending?”

Pat reads Hemingway and looks for a happy ending!
Pat reads Hemingway and looks for a happy ending in “Silver Linings Playbook.”

Too often in our modern world we are reminded of news that takes us away from inspiration. Tragedy befalls the news daily with reminders of what isn’t working in the world. Lately, social media seems clogged with hate-filled rhetoric and frankly who wants to read that after a long day of work? Not me!

When I began to think of how I would use this website and social media channels, I made a commitment to seek out stories that inspire. Whether it is something that I have written or something I read or watched, I plan on sharing it here. I want this to be a place where you can come and find something filled with hope, something that inspires or something that just balances out the negative in your life.

Life is too short to sweat the negative stuff…why not look to hope in filling that void.

Here’s a sample of what types of stories I plan on sharing here:

This story appeared this morning on “CBS This Morning” in a piece by Steve Hartman.


LIH Cover 2015It’s official! Life in Harmony has a publication date – December 1, 2015!

Yes, this is exciting and long overdue news. You can pre-order e-books now on Amazon and Barnes & Noble. It is also available for Kobo, Overdrive and various other formats. It should be available on iTunes hopefully before of the end of the year. Print Books will be available starting 12/1 on Amazon.

Over the next 10 weeks, I will be having a Blog Blitz covering various topics and themes connected to Life in Harmony.  I will also have other important announcements about the book and some other exciting opportunities related to the book’s publication.  Subscribe to this blog (top right) now to stay connected! Please also subscribe on Twitter or Facebook for more frequent updates!


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